Exercise: Today my mother would want me to…

Go back to chapter two where you wrote what you believed your mother wanted for you when you where growing up.  Now, if you can, call or visit your mother.  Do it right now.  Tell her that you are doing this life planning exercise and that you want to ask her a few things to better understand yourself.

Ask her (and write down some key points about her answers):

What did you want for me when I was growing up?  Why?
What is her advice on what I can do with my life now?  Why?

 

What have you learned in your life?

 

After you have spoken to your mother, answer the following:

Was I right about what I thought she wanted for me when I grew up?

 

If I was right, do I understand why?

 

If I was mistaken, do I understand why I was mistaken?

 

Do I understand why she is advising me what she is today?

 

What has she learned about life that I can use?

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Table of Contents


I. Chapter One: Introduction to Life Planning


II. Chapter Two: Your Past



III. Chapter Three: The Influence Of Generations



IV. Chapter Four: Your Present



V. Chapter Five: Your Future



VI. Chapter Six: Your Alternatives



VII. Chapter Seven: Making The Decision