Trap #7: Keeping your doors open

Many people think that not committing keeps the doors of opportunities open and increases their freedom, choices, and happiness.  The fact is that when you have no focus or clarity, you have no freedom, choices, and happiness.

The person who is all over the place and never seems to be able to decide is at a disadvantage.  Today’s culture glorifies specialization; the Renaissance people of a few hundred years ago are not in vogue today.  You can overcome this by staying broad but specializing in one field.

Another way to overcome it is to find or create a job that fits your seeking nature.  Teachers, journalists, scholars, life coaches, and many others are good at combining many disciplines.

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Allowing Ourselves to Ask the Question

Table of Contents

I. Chapter One: Introduction to Life Planning

II. Chapter Two: Your Past

III. Chapter Three: The Influence Of Generations

IV. Chapter Four: Your Present

V. Chapter Five: Your Future

VI. Chapter Six: Your Alternatives

VII. Chapter Seven: Making The Decision

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